Who Needs Friendships!

November 13, 2012 by

While shopping at my local thrift store, I came across a book that caught my eyes.  I stopped before passing by, picked it up and could not put it down until I was almost finished with it.  I was glued to the pages because the words pierced my heart.  I could not put to words what I was going through but the author penned it so well.   It was so well that I did not noticed a drop of water had hit the page, and it was not raining outside, the store did not have a leak, the water drop was from my eyes.  If you know me, a river usually follows a tear drop.  I knew right then that I had to buy the book and finish reading it later.

The book talks about the many dimensions of friendships.  As I get older and the busyness of life takes its course, I began to realize and understand how fragile friendship is. At one point in my life, I was discouraged at making new friends; thinking why put in the effort when I’ll lose them eventually.  That’s where this book helped me put things into perspective.  No matter how many times we think, who needs friends, we all have a desire to connect with someone at any level.

Here are some poems from Flavia Weedn’s book Forever.

Some people
come into our lives
and quickly go.
leave footprints on our hearts,
and we are never,
ever the same.

When we care deeply about someone,
we learn the real gifts found in time…
And that its true measure of value
is discovered not in its duration,
but in the sharing of its moments.

Some people come into our lives by chance,
or maybe not really by chance
Perhaps in destiny’s grand design
there are no random meetings
And all is meant to be.

 

 

 

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Thankful Basket

November 6, 2012 by

As we enter into this season of thanks, I wanted to create a home environment where my kiddos can express their thanks to God for His blessings. At the beginning of the month, we started our Thanksgiving tree. Now we wanted to share with you our thankful basket. This simple activity not only helps all us to recount our blessings, but is also a language arts lesson. This is how our thankful basket works.

Materials:

Basket or another container
paper
pen or pencil

Instructions:

Set a basket, precut papers and pencil on a table.  Anyone in the family can write and drop their thankful messages into the basket. On Thanksgiving day, we’ll pass around the basket and read some or all of the messages.

Note:

Since Buddy’s learning to write, I encouraged him to write as much as he wanted for himself and help his siblings. He did so eagerly. He’s learning without even knowing it!

The day before Thanksgiving, we passed the basket around after dinner and we read all the messages in the basket. Here’s Buddy reading one of them.

Do you have a favorite Thanksgiving activity that you would like to share. Please drop a note in the comments sections.

Adapted from Shirley Dobson’s books Let’s Make a Memory.

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ThanksgivingTree

November 4, 2012 by

 

To start off the Thanksgiving Holiday, I decided to do a craft with the kids that will allow them to have a hands-on experience.  The idea of this craft is to get them to write down one thing that they’re thankful for each day.  Through this exercise, I am hoping that they are mindful of the many blessings that God has given to us as a family.  So, here’s the Thanksgiving Tree that’s in our kitchen.  Enjoy!

Materials:

2-3 yd. brown butcher paper (I think mine was 24″ wide, got it at a local educational store)
Fall leaves
Painter’s tape (doesn’t ruin your wall)
Marker for writing
Strips of paper (optional)

Instructions:

1. Lay out brown butcher on floor.
2. Sketch out a tree on butcher paper with black marker and cut it out.
3. Tape tree to a wall with marked side facing into the wall, and start decorating your tree with some fallen leaves.
4. Everyday, have each family member write down what they’re thankful for on a leaf and simply tape leaf onto tree using painter’s tape.

 Here’s our leaves after our first day.

Our Thanksgiving tree after day 1. Pretty soon, it’ll be filled with beautiful leaves with all our blessings.

Note: I bought these foam leaves from Michaels, and decided I’ll reuse them in the years to come, so I cut strips of paper for writing instead of writing directly on the leaves themselves. Remember Michaels and Joann both take each other’s coupons. There’s a lot of 40 or 50% off coupons out there at this time of year.

Does your family have a neat way of celebrating this season of thanks? I’d love to hear from you. Please share some of your traditions.

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Roasting Your Own Pumpkin Seeds

November 2, 2012 by

If your kids are anything like mine, they love seeds and nuts for snacks.  So, when I told them that we would roast the pumpkin seeds from our pumpkin carving activity, they were all into it.  On a side note, did you know that pumpkin seeds is a good source of protein, iron and vitamin K?

While you can truly roast your pumpkin seeds at 400 F, I prefer to slow cook mine at a lower temperature. Spice up your seeds with additional herbs and spices, such as garlic salt, melted butter, ground cinnamon, all spice to name a few or just stick with the basics, a dash of salt and a little oil if needed. And that’s just what we did.

Ingredients:

Pumpkin seeds, about 1 1/2 to 2 cups, cleaned and rinsed
1 teaspoon Salt
1 teaspoon of oil-Optional
Cookie sheet (I used my glass Pyrex)

Pumpkin seeds in my metal strainer.

Instructions:

1. Rinse pumpkin seeds until free of pulp and strings using a strainer.
2. Preheat over to 300 F
3. In a large bowl, add pumpkin seed and toss with salt and oil (optional). If you’re working with dry seeds, oil will help the salt and other spices to stick to your seeds. But if your seeds are still wet, you can even skip the oil. At this point, add additional spices and mix well.
4. Spread pumpkin seeds onto your cookie sheet evenly in one layer.
5. Bake in oven for about 30 min-45 min or until your pumpkin seeds are crisp.

Tip: In the past, I’ve burned my pumpkin seeds in between diaper changes, so do stay close and keep an eye on them.

One healthy snack for you and your family. Enjoy!

What do you do with your pumpkin seeds? Share your ideas in the comment section.

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Halloween Candy: Creative Ways to Use Them

November 1, 2012 by

Now that Halloween is over, what are you going to do with all those candies. Between the candies my kiddos got from a harvest party and the ones we bought for trick-or-treaters, we have three beach buckets left. I could save all the candies and let them eat it, or, being a homeschool mom, I wanted to use it as a teaching tool.  This subject is not on math, science, or health, but on the act of service.  I wanted to get the kids started into this holiday season with the mind set of serving others rather than receiving.   There is a program called Halloween Candy Buyback where local dentists can register and buy back Halloween candy from neighborhood kids.  The dentists then send them to the troops overseas. I just thought that this is just a great way for me to teach the kids about serving others and about the men and women in our armed forces, our American Heroes.

Here’s what you need to do.  Go to Halloween Candy Buyback. Once you’re at the site, type in your zip code to find a local dentist in your neighborhood. Give the dentists a call for their specific times that they’ve set aside for this event. Then have your kids pack up the candies and visit the dentist with them.

Wait…before dropping off those candies, here are some fun learning activities you might want to consider especially if you have young kids.

Buddy used those candies for his patterning lesson in math.

Both Buddy and Chico lined up those candies to make a candy graph. Since Buddy is older, I gave him harder questions as he compared the candies on his graph. With Chico, we talked about the ideas of more and less.

I asked Mei to sort the candies. I demonstrated to her by putting one of each kind of candy in each container and asked her to put the same candies in those containers. She did a great job in her sorting lesson.

There’s also counting by ones, twos, tens, even hundreds if you have that many. For language arts lessons, you might use names of the candies to reinforce letter sounds, beginning sounds or even reading all the names of the candies depending on your child’s levels. How about nutrition lesson? Learning what’s in candy might help your child understand why too much candy is not good for our bodies.

This is what our local dentist from the program gave the kids. New toothbrush and a new toy for each child and $1.00 per pound of candy (we got $8.00 back!)

Hopefully this will give you some great ideas on what to do with your Halloween candies. I’d love to hear what you do with your candies. Please share in the comment section.

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